We are Ask Your Mom – a band of dads that has been together since 2005. Despite outward appearances, we know how to rock a room. Whether it is a sweaty bar or a wedding under a tent or a giant outdoor festival, we get people to dance.


  • 9/28  – North Star – Pound Ridge, NY
Ask Your Mom at North Star Thursday April 20, 2023

We play covers other bands usually don’t. Yes, we play American Girl by Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers but we also play Even the Losers and Makin’ Some Noise. We like to think of our genre as “classic alternative” – not classic rock like the radio and not “alternative” like black eyeliner but a nice combination of the two. Sort of like your cool cousin in high school ahead of you and whatever he listened to.

Sample List of Bands We Cover:

The Black Crowes


David Bowie

The Cars

The Clash

Elvis Costello

The Cure

The Dandy Warhols

The Doors

Foo Fighters

Gin Blossoms

Green Day

Joe Jackson

The Jam


The Knack

Pearl Jam

Tom Petty

The Plimsouls


The Rolling Stones

The Romantics

The Strokes

Talking Heads


ZZ Top

Venues we have played:

North Star (Pound Ridge, NY) – 30 times and counting

Gates (New Canaan, CT) – 2x

Norwalk Oyster Festival – 3x

O’Malley’s/Katie Mac’s/MTK (Mt. Kisco, NY) 10x?

Lucy’s (Pleasantville, NY) – 3x

Historical Hall (Bedford, NY) – 3x

Conant Hall (Pound Ridge, NY) – 2x

Connolly’s Klub 45 (NYC)

The Cutting Room (NYC)

Captain Lawrence Brewery (Elmsford, NY)

Half Full Third Place (Stamford, CT)

Crabtree Kittle House (Armonk, NY)

Plus lots of one-offs and parties – as of September 2023 we have played nearly 100 shows including two (!) weddings! 

Audio Samples

A Million Miles Away – Live at North Star 5/13/2021
Until the End of the World – live at Connolly’s 2/18/22
19th Nervous Breakdown – rehearsal recording (yes, we like the Stones)
Should I Stay Or Should I Go? – Live at Gates Restaurant 1/20/2020

Video samples

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Contact Ask Your Mom:

Derek Correia


Mobile: 914-980-9841

Rob Cavenagh


Mobile: 914-646-4008

Rich De Palma


Mobile 917-974-9386