We are Ask Your Mom – a band of dads that has been together since 2005. Despite outward appearances, we know how to rock a room. Whether it is a sweaty bar or a wedding under a tent or a giant outdoor festival, we get people to dance.
UPCOMING SHOWS:
- 9/28 – North Star – Pound Ridge, NY


We play covers other bands usually don’t. Yes, we play American Girl by Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers but we also play Even the Losers and Makin’ Some Noise. We like to think of our genre as “classic alternative” – not classic rock like the radio and not “alternative” like black eyeliner but a nice combination of the two. Sort of like your cool cousin in high school ahead of you and whatever he listened to.
Sample List of Bands We Cover:
The Black Crowes
Blondie
David Bowie
The Cars
The Clash
Elvis Costello
The Cure
The Dandy Warhols
The Doors
Foo Fighters
Gin Blossoms
Green Day
Joe Jackson
The Jam
James
The Knack
Pearl Jam
Tom Petty
The Plimsouls
REM
The Rolling Stones
The Romantics
The Strokes
Talking Heads
U2
ZZ Top
Venues we have played:
North Star (Pound Ridge, NY) – 30 times and counting
Gates (New Canaan, CT) – 2x
O’Malley’s/Katie Mac’s/MTK (Mt. Kisco, NY) 10x?
Lucy’s (Pleasantville, NY) – 3x
Historical Hall (Bedford, NY) – 3x
Conant Hall (Pound Ridge, NY) – 2x
Connolly’s Klub 45 (NYC)
The Cutting Room (NYC)
Captain Lawrence Brewery (Elmsford, NY)
Half Full Third Place (Stamford, CT)
Crabtree Kittle House (Armonk, NY)
Plus lots of one-offs and parties – as of September 2023 we have played nearly 100 shows including two (!) weddings!