We are Ask Your Mom – a band of dads that has been together since 2005. Despite outward appearances, we know how to rock a room. Whether it is a sweaty bar or a wedding under a tent or a giant outdoor festival, we get people to dance.

Return of the Gig 5/13/2021
You can't look away

We play covers other bands usually don’t. Yes, we play American Girl by Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers but we also play Here Comes My Girl and Makin’ Some Noise. We like to think of our genre as “classic alternative” – not classic rock like the radio and not “alternative” like black eyeliner but a nice combination of the two. Sort of like your cool cousin in high school ahead of you and whatever he listened to.

Sample List of Bands We Cover:

The Black Crowes

Blondie

David Bowie

The Cars

The Clash

Elvis Costello

The Cure

The Dandy Warhols

The Doors

Foo Fighters

Gin Blossoms

Green Day

Joe Jackson

James

The Knack

Pearl Jam

Tom Petty

Pink Floyd

The Plimsouls

REM

The Rolling Stones

The Romantics

The Strokes

Talking Heads

U2

ZZ Top

Venues we have played:

North Star (Pound Ridge, NY) – 27 times and counting

Gates (New Canaan, CT)

Norwalk Oyster Festival – 3x

O’Malley’s/Katie Mac’s/MTK (Mt. Kisco, NY)

Lucy’s (Pleasantville, NY)

Historical Hall (Bedford, NY)

Conant Hall (Pound Ridge, NY)

Crabtree Kittle House (Armonk, NY)

Plus lots of one-offs and parties – as of October 2021 we have played nearly 100 shows. 

Audio Samples

A Million Miles Away – Live at North Star 5/13/2021
19th Nervous Breakdown – rehearsal recording (yes, we like the Stones)
Should I Stay Or Should I Go? – Live at Gates Restaurant 1/20/2020

Video samples

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Rob Cavenagh

rob@askyourmom.us

Mobile: 914-646-4008


Derek Correia

derek@askyourmom.us

Mobile: 914-980-9841